“I can’t possibly have breast cancer…,” says I…
It’s very surreal. NO, it’s REALLY more like REAL.
I have made a VERY deliberate choice (and after visiting with my husband, family and best friends) that I want to share this journey. I’ll get more into “IT”…(aka, the Opponent) WAY MORE later…but first things, first.
YES…this is REAL. I will be going through a double masectomy in the coming weeks. DAMMIT! In my own words…”It IS what it IS.”
Before getting into all the details…here is the WHY I am taking the time to share this. (Because all of you that know me, know me at all, or know me well…know that I have a SURPLUS amount of time. HAHA. Being married to the Head Baseball Coach of the Houston Cougars (GOCOOGS!!!). —{Couldn’t help it}…and having 5 children. Yes, 5! {Wouldn’t change it for the world}. So here is WHY I am starting and sharing this blog…{PS- I actually had to answer this question for myself first and then really dig…}. Here we go:
A). It just seems easier for me (and T, and our family) to get information out to our network/everyone. {As we are so fortunate to have}
B). I REALLY want ACCURATE information to be “out there.” As I teach in my social media classes…better to be PROACTIVE VS. REACTIVE.
C). I’m thinking this will actually prove to be therapeutic for me. While I fancy myself as a math/science person…I think it will be good. {So far…so good}
D). MOST IMPORTANTLY: If (and when)…I can reach one more gal that this journey helps and/or saves…I AM IN!!! And, it’s MORE than worth it to me.
Questions/Comments/Concerns???
TaraTataTales 
I want to visit when you are up for it. And will be praying without ceasing for you my friend. Here if you need ANYTHING! ❤️U BIG!!
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My thoughts and prayers are with you! I had a journal too, I created a separate page to keep everyone informed on my journey. It was good for me and it kept everyone informed! Good luck Tara! You got this!
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I was on your journey 6 years ago last Friday. While our lives are different, there are many similarities, wife, Mom, busy job, busy husband, devoted daughter, sister, etc. No cancer in our family, ever, until me. All this to say, you’ve got this. Six years from now, YOU will see how this experience can change you, yes, even for the better. In the darkest of what feel like life changing days, there will be the light of a God who loves you, your T, your amazing kids and your incredibly long list of loving friends and family. If you ever want to talk about it, I’m here. Six years strong. You will be, too. Sending much love ❤️ XOXO Robin
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I pray for you and your journey, my mother had the same procedure 3 years ago. You are strong, You are kind and you are beautiful. Not to mention you are a fighter and will beat this. You have a wonderful support system and also an HAR member family who is here for you. God Bless and you will be in my prayers each night. Love ya Tara!
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Well, there it is! First, you’re right, cancer sucks! And it really sucks when it takes parts of us that are unique to us girls (mine was the other lady parts). If given the option, of course we would choose not to have cancer, but you may be surprised at the positive things this will bring to your life. I have no doubt you will destroy this opponent. I can tell you that it made me a better person. If you want to talk about it, cry about it, yell about it, I’m there. It really did make me a better person though. It changed my priorities, my way of taking things head on, my ability to love the small things. You do have a great network, so please, please, please use us. My promise, lots of dinners (and some breakfasts if y’all let me intrude in the mornings) coming to your home posse from me, and absolutely anything else you, or any of the other 6 ask me for.
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Tara you are, and always have been, an incredibly brave, positive and honest woman. As difficult as this is now you are blessed to have a loving and supportive husband, family and network of friends who will walk with you, and be there to carry you should you need to be, on this journey. Your positive outlook will inspire many and prayers for your recovery will be abundant. Sending a big hug and lots of love ❤️
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Oh Tara, I didn’t know. Prayers for you on this journey and this battle that you will win! Love you!
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I will watch for updates and keep you and your family in my prayers. You will get people pummeling you with opinions….don’t listen….listen to your medical team, your precious family and your loved ones and last but not least important your heart. Sending hugs.
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Hi Tara, RENATA & Pele from FL (capoeira) our prayer go out to you. You’re a strong woman!! We miss you guys tell the kids we say hello😘
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Tara
My daughter went thru the same thing with Brac 1.
Let me know if you would like to talk to Ashley.
Good Luck
Judy Zimmer
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Thanks so much for sharing with us all. The Schulzes will be praying and doing anything we can to support you and your awesome family! ❤️
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Thank you for sharing your journey. I will be praying for strength and healing fir you.
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Well you’re right Cancer sucks! I pray you caught it early and you heal quickly. I am a Cancer Registrar and if you need any information about treatment, drugs or doctors just ask. I know I am not in your area but I can always ask my physicians.
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Dear Tara,
Hang in there, that’s all you really need to do. Gods grace will get you and your family through this nightmare. I agree with your other cancer survivor friends, having cancer will change your perspective. Rest a lot and listen to your doctors. I’m here for you ❤️ BK
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You can and will beat this! Tatas never defined you anyway! Your love of God and family define you! Prayers being said for you, your family and your medical team!
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You are the strongest most beautiful friend, mother, wife, daughter, sister that I know. You will get past this bump in your path successfully while helping others along your journey. I am glad you get mammograms regularly to find this cancer early and encourage others to get checked every year. Take deep breaths and surround yourself with everyone’s love for you, listen to your doctors as well as your own body. My heart is with you and your family. Wish I was there to bring you casseroles & desserts ❤️
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Tara you are amazing – I am sorry to hear about this but very proud of how you are willing to share this journey with us. We can all learn from you!
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You are the strongest friend, mother, wife, sister, daughter that I know. I know you will successfully get past this bump in the road and help others along your way. I am glad you get regular mammograms to find this early and are encouraging others to do the same. Take deep breaths, listen to your doctors and your own body. Rest, be strong and know that you will heal quickly! You and your family are in my heart and prayers! I just wish I was there to make you casseroles, desserts and banana bread. I love you Tara xo
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Praying for strength and a successful procedure for you. All will be well.
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